This week has been fun for me. I've entered the world of middle school track meets! Since I am a "new" runner, I obviously wasn't a track star in school. Only ran one year (8th grade), as I preferred sports like volleyball and softball that required very little running. I went into this new season after hearing all the warnings about middle school track; such as comments like, "it's just track," "it's a social hour," or even better, "it's a waste of time." I have watched my kids in all kinds of sports, as they have all been blessed with that athletic gene, and on top if it, that competitive gene as well. So for my son, 7th grade track is not about social hour, as he doesn't do much, especially not a sport, "just for fun." After watching the first two meets of the year, and seeing how my son and some of the other kids have done at them, I would have to disagree with the warnings that were given to me. Yes, there are always those kids at middle school and even high school that are in it for the social factor; however, the majority of the kids that I was blessed to watch, are in it for the win, or at least to do the best that they can. Some are already keeping track of their best times, the schools best times, etc...
However, prior to trying to become a runner myself, (I apologize in advance to any runners that I may offend) I may have jumped on the "running is not a sport" bandwagon, and my sister ran cross country and track. Now, after attempting to become a runner myself, I realize that the old saying about "walking (in this case running) a mile in someone else's shoes" definitely applies to this sport, and this sport at this level. These are middle school kids, and I'm sure we all remember "that" age. That age where your feet were 4 sizes too big for the rest of your body, when you were faced with surging hormones, bad acne, crushes and heartache, fitting in, etc...
These kids face their own type of fears every day, and when they are on the track they do not have a time-out, with a team huddle, and teammates to slap them on the shoulders and drag them out of their emotional downward spiral. Even in wrestling, which is huge in our family, the wrestlers are on the mat "alone," but the coach is right there in their corner, the teammates and fans are just feet away. On the track, the closest contact for these kids rounding turn three, is the person they are trying to beat, and that person isn't going to stand over their shoulder and say, "c'mon, you can beat me..." When they get to that turn, and still have another 200 to 3000m to go, they have no voice to propel them forward but their own.
From my own last year of running, I have come to realize how mental this sport (and I know now that it really is a sport) really is. I may be very athletic, and running did come kind of natural once I started, even late in life, but I'm not as mentally strong as some of these middle school kids. There was one kid from our school that ran the 800 with my son. My son is quick and has placed in both meets, but the other kid was barely finishing lap one when the rest were finishing lap two. I know many many adults that would have stepped off the track right there, but this kid kept on jogging along at his own pace, and when he crossed the finish line, the team cheered him on, but on lap two at the first corner and for the next 600 m. He was all alone. So no matter if it would have taken him 2 minutes or 5 minutes to finish the race, the fact that he finished shows that he has learned one lesson of this sport already. And it's a lesson that I'll take with me next weekend at the Flying Pig, to keep going, to keep moving forward, and that no matter if I get passed by someone three times my age, that it's my race. I'm out to beat the goals I set for myself, and to do the best that I can. I would love to place in my age group someday, but being my first, I just want to finish. And in finishing, realize that I've already accomplished one goal in itself.


Here are a few pics of my son - I'm so proud of him. He cleared 8'9" - personal record for him - on the pole vault.